May 23, 2013

My wife says she won’t come to a scheduled mediation session. What can I do?

Additional Information:

I am a Marine and I filed for a uncontested divorce. I don’t want anything in the house at all. I don’t want to fight about a thing. We have a 17 month old daughter. I informed her of our mediation at the legal office on base. She called me 3 days before the appointment to tell me that she would not be there or do anything I ask of her towards the divorce. So, I am going to show up to mediation and have everything all figured out in my head but no spouse to talk things through. What happens next?

ATTORNEY ANSWER:

The mediation process is voluntary; parties attend and participate in the mediation sessions of their own volition. If your spouse is not ready to come to the table or to discuss the issues in good faith, you will want to explore your alternatives. Even if you begin using another system, such as traditional representation, you can always suspend an adversarial process and use mediation at any point.

The Worcester and Cape Cod divorce mediators at Parker Mediation provide professional mediation services to individuals and families throughout Massachusetts with offices serving Worcester County, Central Massachusetts, Boston metro-west, and Cape Cod and the Islands.

The family and divorce mediators in our Worcester, MA office serve the Central Massachusetts and Boston metro-west communities such as Clinton, Framingham, Fitchburg, Leominster, Marlborough, Millbury, Shrewsbury, Sutton, Westborough and Worcester, Massachusetts.

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